i joined an online dating service?

laura s asked:


why is it that when you meet a guy in a online dating service and they say that they want to get to know you better,and they are interested in you, they dont write back for several weeks? why does it take a man sooo long to write back? they cant be that busy can they??

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Comments (18)

carolJune 27th, 2009 at 7:21 am

the problem with online dating is, sometimes members don’t take them too seriously. unfortunately, these activities are not their priorities hence they go about their businesses and just go back when they feel like it.

I would recommend using paid online dating sites rather than those offering free services. paying members have an increased chance of meeting a serious date or dates. or, you could also try niche online dating sites that are more specific and moderated. goodluck!

thewanderer862006June 27th, 2009 at 2:59 pm

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was is sexadventures.com?

LeianiJune 28th, 2009 at 9:39 am

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They have a short attention span. If they dont receive a reply to their email within 20 seconds they give up lol

bounderandlexiJune 28th, 2009 at 10:54 am

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cry me a river, build me a bridge, and get over it.

NanabananaJuly 1st, 2009 at 5:10 am

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Because they are probably married.

misscongeniality711July 2nd, 2009 at 6:35 am

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Many different reasons…

JohnSJuly 4th, 2009 at 6:13 pm

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Could be married or busy with work…. Be carefull of online dating services…

ShadyJuly 6th, 2009 at 4:46 am

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to me online datin is a joke. i only joined to get someone laid. lmfao

ŚwaggsJuly 8th, 2009 at 4:44 pm

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Maybe, but not likely. I’d say ask him, but I guess you can’t since you don’t talk to him much. Online dating can be iffy at best alot of the time.

黒人氷篠部July 11th, 2009 at 4:10 am

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Probably looking into someone else or probably already married and too busy with there wife to answer your e-mail.

tom aJuly 13th, 2009 at 4:38 am

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No–probably not. If the guy you connected with was available and interested…he’d be quick to respond. Be cautious about on line dating services….there’s alot of ***** guys seeking casual ***. You’re picking guys in the dark that you know nothing about and have no means by which to verify what they tell you. You also need to develop a thick skin for this type of hook up. Good Luck

Falling to piecesJuly 16th, 2009 at 2:47 pm

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Not sure, maybe he is responding to tons of emails because he is looking for just ***……or maybe his wife is home alot, and he cant check emails.

Email me, I promise it wont take weeks for a return response.

imma Italian/Irish guy with a heart of gold !

Have a wonderful day and good luck !

The Weed FairyJuly 19th, 2009 at 6:40 am

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who cares
why u obsessing over someone you dont even know?
you are crossing from ’sad’ over to the ‘pathetic’ line

lunasageJuly 22nd, 2009 at 1:01 pm

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Because they are guys . . . if you respond too quick they feel like you’re getting too close . . . they want to be in control of how fast/slow things go. If you stop sending email they normally come back wondering why you stopped.

Queenleo21July 23rd, 2009 at 6:55 am

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he has meet 30 other women also so he doesnt have the time for just one. many women is a mans dream so he has forgotton about u honey find a new one. try good luck

big mommasweetaJuly 26th, 2009 at 11:30 am

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OMG girl, I have sooo been there. And let me tell you what that means- it means you are back burner in case no one else works out. It means, Hey! I am actually seeing Shelly, having *** with Jane, and talking to sara,shannon, and mary. But I think you are kinda cute too. But what actually leaves their lips (or fingers) is, Hey! Yeah, we should hang out sometime, you seem really cool! Buyer- beware of the male cyber ******! (also available in female)

daynaJuly 28th, 2009 at 3:04 pm

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yeah, men are always busy with their stupid stuff

>>i dun know what to say here….just that the same thing happen to me…i sms my bf for zillion of times but he never replied..he is getting into my nerves

JPJuly 30th, 2009 at 1:41 am

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Isn’t it funny how you get judged, and analyzed… when all you really want is an answer, lol! I think the guy would email you back within a few days at the most, if he’s a decent guy and truly interested. Why else would he take forever to write… he’s got other things going on (other women!) After you do this for awhile you’ll get better at reading the signs and weeding out the jerks. I’ve found online dating to be a fun way to meet people but you have to be picky, and you have to be careful! Good luck, Laura! :o)

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