online dating vs real life dating? 10pts best answer?
John08 asked:
this is an unusual problem but anyway:
in chatrooms, girls like me, i mean they give me their number and all that, but in real life, i **** at dating, i get nervous and i mess it up.
this is an unusual problem but anyway:
in chatrooms, girls like me, i mean they give me their number and all that, but in real life, i **** at dating, i get nervous and i mess it up.
* And i dont lie about myself online!
advices please?
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maybe because singles like us find it hard to express themselves when in front of a stranger while in online dating, you don’t need to be very conscious of your activities, only the words you use while communicating with your date. in real life, dates are too much hassle and one mistake you do could break a date while online dating, you can pause for a while, think of the situation more properly and respond. you cannot do that in real life because you’ll come across as uncertain.
it’s nice to go out on dates with your friends or group of people you are most comfortable with and see where it takes you.
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It’s easier to not feel the rejection in the cyber world that one would experince in reality.
I would recommend going out and just relaxing. Rejection is a part of dating…
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online dating- im not so sure, but thats how some people i know got their husbands.. do whats easiest..
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I think your problem is talking to someone face to face some advise i would give you is trying to plan out conversations orr just to try to think that you are talking to somone online.
I also have a similar problem and trust me it would be harder for me to tell you this directly than over yahoo answers
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I have a very similar problem, im very shy in person but online i can be the fun person i really am easily and make a lot of friends very quickly. But in real life forget about it.. im shy, awkward, and kinda closed off.
Basically i met my bf online through myspace. We talked on aim for a few months got to know each other and he got to see who i really was not the shy girl who didnt say anything. Even the first night i hung out with him and his friends i barely said anything. But after that night we started talking on the phone a lot and started hanging out more. And he already liked who i really was and he knew about my problem so he gave me time to open up and the more we hung out the easier it was for me to be myself. The weird thing is hes the only guy i’ve ever met from online but i could just tell i liked him a lot from the start. And we’ve been going out for almost two years now.
So maybe you could find a girl who lives around you and talk to her online more at first, or meet someone through the internet. You just have to be careful and do a little of both or the in person stuff wont get better if that makes any sence.